Writing Your Wedding Vows

– From the Heart, Without the Fuss

Ah, vows. The moment where it all feels real, right?

But if the thought of writing your own vows makes your palms sweat—don’t worry, you’re not alone. I’ve helped lots of couples find their words, and here’s the thing: You don’t need to be Shakespeare. You just need to be you.

Here’s my simple guide to heartfelt vows:

1. Start With a Memory
Think back to a moment where you thought: “Yep, they’re the one.” Was it a camping trip in Kaikōura? A late-night laugh? That’s gold.

2. Say What You Love About Them
Are they patient when you lose your keys (again)? Do they make you feel like home? Be specific. That’s what makes it special.

3. Promise Something Real
Forget the fluffy stuff. Promise to always make the Sunday coffees. Promise to be their calm in a storm. Promise to keep listening, even when it’s hard.

4. Keep It Short
A good vow is like a good hug - tight and meaningful. 1-2 minutes tops is perfect.

And if writing really isn’t your fortē? I’ve got gentle templates and ideas I can share. No stress. No judgment. Just support.

Want a ceremony with heartfelt vows, even if writing isn’t your thing?
That’s what I’m here for. Let’s make your promises memorable - for the right reasons.